The Importance of Research.

It has come to my attention that military families love getting animals just to turn around and get rid of them. I have also noticed a great amount of them got breeds that are very important to train!!!! You can start training a pup as soon as you bring it home. It improves the quality of life for both you and the pup.

When choosing a breed, it would behoove you to research the breed. See what medical problems it can develop, what it’s temperament is, how big it will get and how much physical activity it needs.

Training an animal is not difficult. It is like teaching a child. Positive reinforcement will get you there faster. You must be patient and persistent.

If you don’t think you’re up to the challenge, PLEASE DON’T GET A PET! It isn’t fair to the animal to bounce around from home to home like a foster child because the first family didn’t teach it to behave.

I have decided to become a dog trainer in hopes of stopping these posts on FB of people trying to get rid of their animals. Also, if you get rid of one animal, don’t turn around and get another! It wasn’t the puppy’s error, it was the owner’s!

Email me at mrsarielharrell@yahoo.com and I will not only help you train your dog, but I will even help you learn about breeds before you even bring one home! Please and thank you!

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Cheaters and Crappy S/Os.

Has your SO (Significant Other) ever cheated on you? Do they enjoy pointing out your every flaw? Are they overly controlling and possessive? Do you have considerably less self confidence than you used to?

Then I have a question for you; WHY ARE YOU STILL WITH THEM!?!?!?!?

The people I usually see this happen to are the ones that like to be polite, are generally very nice, and don’t like confrontation. I’m going to tell you my opinion on staying with someone who doesn’t deserve you. And if you are being treated like crap; then they absolutely do not deserve your time.

First off, while you should not go into a relationship thinking you’re going to be cheated on, every person needs to lay down the law about cheating. Whatever that law may be for you. For hubby and I, it is that we must tell each other what happened and be completely honest about it. If I hear about it from a third party, there will be no second chance. And depending on my mood and the circumstances, there may not be a second chance anyway. People who basically tell their SO that they will get a second chance are giving them a free pass to be unfaithful.

Aside from it being completely awful, cheating is dangerous. If they had sex with someone else and then had sex with you, that’s a huge risk for STDs. Not to mention how easy it is to simply say, “it’s over.” Much less effort involved in that than trying to keep it a secret.

Those with possessive, controlling, and a-hole SOs need to realize something. Someone can ONLY control you if you LET them. I know way too many people that make up pathetic excuses to stay with their men. “We’re married” – get a divorce. “We had children together” – look at how many single parents are out there. Where there’s a will, there’s a way. “I couldn’t find anyone better” – Bull.

I’m not really in the mindset to add anymore to this. If you have any points you’d like me to touch on, or scenarios you’d like me to talk about, email me at mrsarielharrell@yahoo.com and title it Cheaters and Crappy S/Os. Otherwise, I’ll add to it later.

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KTAB News Inquires About Mountain Lion Sighting

KTAB News has a Facebook Page. On this page, they asked today about the reported sightings of a mountain lion on base. Many commented, and the answers varied. I am here to give you the facts.

I live on base. At the end of my street are 2 parks. In the almost year and a half I have been here, I have had 3 coyote sightings, 1 rattlesnake sighting, about 3 deer sightings, 1 bobcat(lynx) sighting, and about 3 mountain lion sightings.

The military base also acts as a wildlife preserve with these animals along with turkey and countless others.

Before I had seen the mountain lion myself, I was hearing this strange noise late at night and early in the morning. Then I saw a paw print in my front and that was distinctively feline. I did research and found out that it was a cougar.

A month or so later, I saw 2 sets of eyes reflect back from the headlights of my car in between the two parks. One set was to the dog a person was jogging with. The second set was that of the mountain lion’s. It got spooked and ran away. I asked the woman if she realized she had just jogged past a cougar and she said she does so regularly, she just makes sure she has her dog with her. This is proof that there isn’t anything to worry about.

The next sighting happened the same way, more or less. Hubby was with me on our way home and we watched the cougar run from someone’s front yard over to the next street once my headlights hit it.

The last sighting, I was on my own for. I looked out the front window for no real reason and saw it walking directly across the street down the sidewalk towards the park.

People say it is posing a threat and needs to be gone. Now allow me to tell you what the real threats are.

So many of the world’s most magnificent creatures are being killed due to poaching and human development. The food chain keeps a natural balance about things. People say the cougar is a problem. Mountain lions in Texas mainly feed upon the White tail deer, which is not native to this country, but can be found all throughout it. Without something out there to hunt it, the deer would become over populated and die of starvation. Better for their deaths to be feeding something, right?

People claim their children’s safety is at risk. There are so many things in Texas that are a safety risk. Rattlesnakes, Scorpions, Africanized bees(killer bees), coyotes, mountain lions, and bobcats are just the beginning of that list. But on base, the biggest threat to children is how they are raised. Nothing bad can happen on base, right? Because military people are good people. Wrong. Just because the enlisted have a clean track record doesn’t mean their spouse does. There are sex offenders on base. This doesn’t bother me because, while what they did was wrong; they are people, too. Parents on base will let their young children run wild at all hours, unattended. I had a group of young children knock on my door, walk in my house, and say they wanted to play with my cat. None of them knew my name or even what my address was. There parents had no idea. I could have killed them or tied them up and locked them in my closet and their parents wouldn’t know the difference. If their child is out at an hour that they can get attacked by a cougar, who is really at fault? Not the cat. The cat is a opportunist.

The cougar is still afraid of humans and I don’t see it being a problem. There are countless turkey, deer, and rabbits around for it to feed on. If food were to become scarce, I believe the coyotes would be the biggest threat. Not the cats.

People are worried their dogs will get eaten. Again, there is plenty of food for them. While a cougar can easily clear our privacy fences, they stalk their prey and approach them slowly. There is nothing subtle or inconspicuous about jumping a gate to get to food. And again, it would only happen if you were a negligent owner. In this heat, it is nothing short of animal cruelty to leave your animal out permanently. In hot weather climates like this, it is best for people to have indoor animals.

If there are any points I neglected to touch on, please comment and let me know. My opinion is that people should be parents and watch their children, and all will be well. Even if they continue not to, I highly doubt there would be any issue.

Thank you for your time. Live on, big cats!

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CHEATING

So, I was hard up for a book to read. I learned that they are making the book Something Borrowed into a movie. I instantly chose it.

I started reading it and realized that I am rooting for the cheater. It sounds awful, but the other woman is an awful person! I was wondering if anyone else has read it and is on my side? Keep in mind that the book is set up for you to cheer on the cheater.

Would you tell your friend if you had cheated with their S/O? Even if they were a horrible person, do they really deserve that? Would you beat yourself up over it?

I’m loving this book so far, but I watched the trailer and I can already see where they screwed things up! A character that’s supposed to be in a nother COUNTRY is a main character in New York. I don’t understand why they change stuff like that.

Do you read books before movies? I’ve read several. I secretly enjoy getting pissed off at the movie for being wrong. haha

Have a great night!

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I Abandoned You

And for that I apologize. I shall quickly update you on all that has happened since I last typed!

For one,  military support sites have recently been pissing me off. One asked what the fans thought of those who try to avoid deployment. If this were truly a support site, you wouldn’t set us up to bash military members.

Also, just today a post was made asking if any of us have ever wanted to throw our husband’s game systems down a flight of stairs and hope it’s struck by lightning. The site admin said she screamed at her husband over video games and got so mad she hung up on him. Now that he’s home, he only plays about every other night. Other women said they told their husband(before being married) that they would leave them if they brought a game system home. Another said she threw his PS2 or 3 outside, but unfortunately it still works.

WHAT THE HELL PEOPLE!? We(being women) moan, groan, bleed, complain and gossip to our men when it’s the last thing they want to hear! What is wrong with them getting some gameplay in? My husband spends MOST of his day playing either FB games, PSP, DS or Xbox. The other night he was playing Halo Reach, and in between matches he played Dissidia on his PSP I just bought him!

If you feel so insecure that you can’t SHARE your attention with a game system or three, you need to reconsider your relationship. Simply ask him to narrow down his gameplay hours or PLAY WITH HIM! If you can’t beat em’, join em’! It’s been proven that gaming couples have more sex. Just like those that do housework together.

Moving on now. We got a pet rat! Her name is Kiki and she is adorable. She gives kisses and is the size of a saltine cracker :)

I have a job. I work at a purse shop in the mall. I started there April 1st and am getting a pay raise May 15th. If I don’t get promoted by August, I am looking for a new job.

I have something wrong with me. Lower abdominal pain has been bugging me for over a month now. I’ve had blood work and a scraping done so far. May 3rd, I have an ultrasound. I’m hoping to find and cure the problem soon. If not, a CAT scan is next.

We finally made friends our own age! Now to just find more exciting things to do with them than sit on the floor in their apartment with a b*tch beer in hand!

That is all for now.

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Driving in Snow and Ice

Since we live in the south now, and many people seem to be a little lost when it comes to navigating the roads, I thought I would take some time to explain key points of safe driving in snow and ice.

Step one; Thaw out your car. Let it run a good 10-15 minutes before you take it anywhere. Especially if your car doesn’t stay in a garage overnight. Get all of the snow off of your car. Otherwise, it’ll all fall back onto your windows while you’re driving.

Step two; Accept the fact that your tires are too bare to handle the weather. If that’s the case, see if you can get a ride with someone else. Better to be stuck in the house than stuck on the side of the road in snow.

Step three; Stop accelerating! Keep a slow and steady pace and do not accelerate. That is when you lose control.

Step four; Brake early, slowly, and gradually. If you feel you car sliding, pump the breaks.

Step five; Should you fishtail, turn your steering wheel in the direction that the rear of your car is sliding. Don’t overcorrect, though. If your tail is coming up to your right, turn the wheel right as well, otherwise you will spin out. Most likely you will end up on the opposite side of the road if you turn the wheel in the wrong direction.

Step six; Don’t feel the need to hit the brakes, just keep a good distance between you and the car in front of you and simply take your foot of the gas to slow down.

Step seven; DO NOT TAILGATE. You will not be able to stop in time and it is illegal anyway. Keep a full car’s length between you and the car in front of you at stop lights, signs, etc.

Step eight; Don’t accelerate on a bridge or under an overpass. Ice lives there.

Step nine; Drive in preexisting tire tracks on the road. This applies for rain as well. It will help with traction.

Step ten; Do not brake going downhill. I see people do this all the time on a street right off base. That’s another way to lose control.

Step eleven; Don’t go out unless it’s necessary. Your saving yourself a chance to wreck that way.

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Wrong, Right, or None of Your Damned Business?

Getting married young can be looked down upon, and normally is. But what about before you’re even 18? Why are so many people opposed to the idea? I’ll explain some theories in this blog post! And, just so we’re clear, I married at 18. This is definitely not an attack on those who marry young. Just giving some perspective.

First, you think you’re mature.  No matter how true that may be in comparison to your age, you are still not fully developed. I mean that in every way possible. And if you are acting and feeling the exact same way when you are 24, that is far from a good thing. Everyone has self-growth and gradually heightened self-awareness. It doesn’t really start until you’ve done new things. Living on your own, having a job, being independent, being with more than one person sexually all help develop you into who you will be further on down the road. Getting married fresh out of high school, or even before, robs you of such experience and insight.

Later down the road, you may find yourself wondering what it would’ve been like to live on your own, or have sex with someone else. Assuming you are committed to your marriage, you’ll never have the answers to questions like those.

Second, the divorce rate is high enough as it is. When you throw mere teenagers into the mix, it raises statistics considerably. Whatever the reason: you’re in love, you’re pregnant, you’re in an abusive relationship and feel you can’t escape; marrying young is never the best idea in the world. Keep in mind, I’m only 19 and have been married a year now. I’m just realistic and know the chances of us growing out of each other exists. Our solution is that divorce can be an option until children are in the picture. At that point, we’ve been together long enough to work through our differences and will have to grit our teeth and bear it.

Undoubtedly, there are points I’ve missed and people I’ve pissed off with this post. All I have to say is oh well. That, and I hope you never grow out of your marriage. I hope you never let it die out or fade away into nothingness, resulting in a divorce or “convenient marriage.”

Good luck, congrats, and expect hard times. Just know you’re strong enough to work through them!

Response posts are welcome! I can post it up on my site if you email it to me! Just ask :)

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When it Rains…

So, hubby leaves for a TDY.

I get no sleep.

Babysat for like 8 hours on hardly any sleep.

Whiny friends.

Car dies.

Skype won’t work.

His phone dies.

2 hours to get my car jumped.

The wind is trying to blow my house down.

Can’t sleep for the rattling.

Eating fast food.

This tea is gross.

Now for some more cohesive thought.

I know a family considering getting a German Shepherd as their family dog. How much research are you willing to put into your pet? Not only for their health, but for your safety? I would still like to get a GSD, but not for a while. But I got an Encyclopedia, a behavioral magazine, and read countless articles online. Before considering any animal, please do your research. Every animal deserves to find its forever home on the first shot. It isn’t fair to the animal or the new family receiving a damaged pet. Believe it or not, they have feelings, too.

Side Note; Stop shoving religion down my throat.

Does anyone have a book they think I should be reading? I’m about done with mine and I’m going on a shopping spree at B&N this weekend! So excited!

My opinion on TDYs; go to hell. If you’re taking my man from me, do so for more than a week. Make it worthwhile. K thanks.

My opinion on mid shift; go to hell. The only reason I should be going to bed alone is if my husband is deployed. Thanks.

My opinion of people who don’t read or contribute to my blog; you’re the epitome of lame.

Give me something to write about that’s worth my time!

Be a guest blogger on here!

End stream of thought.

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Troublesome Children

Has anyone ever dealt with a toddler who attacks? How did you handle it? Were you able to find a childcare provider willing to help with the problem instead of call you to pick them up? Where and how did you find such a person or place?

My friend is having similar problems and she doesn’t deserve to lose her job because her kid is being malicious. We know counseling is needed, but until it’s fixed, what should be done about childcare?

Thanks!

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Adventure Time!

Yesterday, my hubby, puppy, and I went hiking at a local state park. while I’ve been to this park on several occassins, the hub and pup had not. I don’t particularly like it for it’s lack of trails and difficulty. The scenery isn’t the best either if we’re being honest here. Today was quite fun, though!

My dog saw it’s first deer (6 of them) and both my boys saw their first armadillos (3 of them).

Afterwards, the hubby and I went to Texas Roadhouse and had sirloin, salad, and a loaded baked potato. It was heaven, in case you were wondering.

That was followed by watching a bit of the Colts vs Jets game and going to the bookstore and reading.

I am quite excited to start planning roadtrips to go to other state and national parks here in Texas!

Do you plan things like hiking? How far in advance and how well do you plan?

What animals would you love to see in the wild? I wanna see them all! Bears, Mountain Lions, Bobcats, Foxes!!!

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